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M. M.'s avatar

Irshad is on fire! My renewed journey on this topic started with Jonathan Haidt (The Coddling . . .) and the Heterodox Society which in turn led me to many places including Persuasion. That said, my favorite epiphany is that, with humility, you must be able to engage with "others" (even THOSE others) to even begin to start a substantive conversation (which in turn leads to better understanding and, perhaps after lots of work, even better outcomes). To me, increased polarization and a strong disagreement on basic underlying facts makes this even more true. Irshad's book is a fantastic articulation of why this approach is frankly the only constructive way forward and, even better yet, provides the tools needed to engage. As with all things in life, there are no shortcuts - just keep putting in the good work and meet people where they are.

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Rev. Rick Davis's avatar

Thanks for posting this insightful article and for making me aware of Irshad's book (which I just ordered). I am serving as a minister in the Unitarian Universalist tradition and am aghast at the spiritually inept, divisive and most assuredly counter productive methods our religious association is trying to impose upon congregations. The members of the congregation I serve here in Oregon honestly yearn to promote diversity and help create a truly "beloved community" (MLK, Jr.) and this gives me hope that there are wise and compassionate guides out there who don't loathe any segment of the population who can help us find out way.

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