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Cornelis J van Dijk's avatar

As a non-American (but yes I have the nationality and I vote) I am amazed how someone can use so many words and not state the main point first: what does the woman want, what are her circumstances, how does she feel about it? Can she become a Mother? Half of all pregnancies are a surprise and logically, a large portion of all pregnancies are not wanted. A good portion of pregnancies must be dangerous to the woman's body or her mind. What a doctor believes of wants is unimportant, if he cannot handle the psychiatric part of his job, he should talk to a colleague. Then make a decision, serving the Mother's well being.

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M. M.'s avatar

Honestly, a great piece that underscores the balancing necessary to reconcile complex moral decisions. This is spot on -

"My own tentative answer, I realize, comes from within my parents: a dad who taught me moral complexity, and the limits of government policy; a mom who granted me the moral urgency to fight for children. When young, all I wanted was moral certainty. With age, I must accept complexity."

Add in the fact that humans are inherently flawed, society is a compromise and intellectual humility (IMHO) is the best approach we've come up with and you understand that the tension never goes away (nor should it). Better to acknowledge the tension, leverage your morality as your north star but adjust as best you can taking into consideration both your own and other's interest and make a call (always leaving the safety valve to adjust as new information/experiences cross your transom).

Fantastic piece - this to me is more the "true" human experience than the automatic conflation of the ought begets a singular "how" pervading our discourse today.

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