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Doug Knauer's avatar

The 'potluck' metaphor has been bandied about for some time now and I don't agree that it is an improvement on the melting pot. Europe is a a good (bad?) example of purposely forgetting that a country has a defining national culture, along with smaller neighborhood cultures. These have been formed over years and do not take well to sudden and significant disruption from large numbers of 'outsiders' coming in and living in an openly different way than is the local/national culture. I submit that friction with some new arrivals is a legitimate manifestation of 'you left there to come HERE, so make the effort to fit in.'

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Martin Lowy's avatar

Each of us has to have an identity. We have no choice about "whether" but we do have many choices about "what". In my family, we have Jews from Eastern Europe, Italian Catholics from Calabria, Taiwanese of Chinese descent, and Venezuelan peoples. We all, I believe, identify first as Americans. But that is only a beginning. I believe we all identify secondarily with the values of our forbears, particularly the values of family and ethics that we try to hand down from generation to generation. But many of us also see ourselves as citizens of the world who owe duties to other people just because they are people. All of these attachments change from generation to generation, as we marry, have children, live in different places, study different things, etc. It is an organic process that is not dictated.

In my view, it doesn't do much good to worry about whether it is one kind of pot or another. Each of us tries to instill the values we believe in to the next generations, and sometimes we have success and sometimes we do not. I think I still can see my parents' values in what would be their great grandchildren, most of whom are now young adults. But if so, that is because we just do it.

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