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David Link's avatar

Early in her essay, Emma Camp makes an offhand comment that I think is most important to diagnosing our current cultural disease. She confesses she is maddened by having her "words read in the least charitable possible way." Maybe it's charity that gets lost in our new social media; the charity, or manners or simple decency we tend to call on when we talk to people in private, real, face to face life.

The best lawyers learn this. Lawyers can and must argue zealously on behalf of their client. They are advocates. But in the fairly small world of legal practice, courtesy and respect are also important, because in small communities a person's reputation matters, and while there is no small percentage of lawyers who have and cultivate reputations for being hard-hitting and ruthless, there is an important distinction between what you argue in your briefs and what you say in front of a judge or jury.

We've become something of a nation of advocates. Maybe that's a natural development in a world where everything is not just political but partisan. We are engulfed by legislation, conflicting rights, lawsuits over controversial issues, public interest groups, and advocates of all kinds on all sides.

Amid that, it’s easy to forget that someone, somewhere has to decide among all of the advocates who is right, or who is more right than someone else, or if, maybe, no one is right at all. How many times do we read things about issues we're pre-decided? How often do we read with an open mind, a fair mind, a mind charitable to the writer?

That is an alternate model for our thinking, reading and listening not as advocates but as jurors who have to sift through the evidence, sometimes mountains of it, and -- maybe -- come to what might be a conclusion surprising to ourselves? Or maybe read and decide there's more here to think through?

Rather than reading and listening like an advocate for the mistakes, for the quote out of context, for the faux pas, for the fib, we can read and listen more charitably than we do. If an issue is really important, can we avoid reading into others what we would not want others to read into our own words? That seems to be a more humane way to approach the never-ending stream of public issues that are manufactured daily, weekly, monthly for our overconsumption.

Camp is smart to see that she's just today's piñata, and more are out there. But she's on to something when she calls out the lack of charity in the way too many people approach their reading in our distanced, filtered, oblique, indirect interactions through social media.

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PSW's avatar

You're a very brave and admirable young woman. Learning is the process of taking in information and thinking and deciding for one's self. Indoctrination is being told what to think. Today's universities are indoctrination centers, not centers for learning.

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