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I love the Persuasion Substack. But I see a number of problems with this piece. Firstly, you refer to "transgender athletes" in women's sports when what you presumably mean is transgender MALE athletes in women's sports. The distinction is crucial, because transgender-identifying FEMALE athletes — even females who "identify" as men — aren't a problem in women's sports. By eliding this fact, you're shifting the emphasis away from the problem: the issue is with people's sex, not their transgender "identities".

You talk of "pulling back from rhetoric that denies biological sex or demands unquestioning recognition for any self-declared gender identity." But you also advocate that people should be allowed to falsify the sex marker on their passports (which you incorrectly call a "gender" marker) because it could hypothetically "create problems at the border for a [male] with a female appearance." It seems patently obvious to me that if there are any problems with border guards somehow unable to comprehend that crossdressers and transsexuals exist, the simplest solution is to educate the border guards rather than to falsify people's documents.

The issue here seems to stem from confusing sex with "gender." As it is, the data recorded on people's passports is their sex. If you'd prefer that government documents record instead whether a person tends to dress and present with a "masculine" or "feminine" appearance, well, that's a separate argument altogether, and I'd argue that it's a pretty regressive position to take.

But the biggest problem with this piece is that at no point do you make any attempt to explain what exactly a "gender identity" is. What is it precisely that distinguishes a "trans person" from a non-trans person? You make allusions to mental health and medical diagnoses, and to "accommodating" "identities" but you haven't offered up any actual basis for the premise that the acknowledgement of ANYONE's biological sex should EVER be rendered taboo, either as a matter of cultural etiquette or as a matter of law.

The answer, of course, is that "gender identity" is nothing but a social construct, and a fairly recently invented one at that. It's also a social contagion. And it's also a bizarre kind of quasi-religious belief system in that it's not trying to cohabitate alongside the material fact of people's biological sex, it's trying to override it. If everyone simply acknowledged people's gender identities ALONGSIDE their actual biological sex, very few people would bother adopting transgender identities in the first place. The part about forcing everyone to pretend not to see their sex is the primary appeal of transgender identity.

There is absolutely no material basis for the distinction between a man and a "transgender woman", and the very concept of "being" transgender is iatrogenic — that is to say, the idea itself that some people were born with "gender identities" that are mismatched to their biological sex is alluring to people in vulnerable states of mind, and it leads to medical harm — both psychological and physical.

People are already free to live as they wish. People are free to dress femininely or masculinely. And people are free to self-identify as born-again Christians or Scientologists or "transgender women," but these are spiritual beliefs and there are limits to how much they should be accommodated in the secular sphere. This is especially true in the case of spiritual beliefs that have the potential to cause harm to their adherents. I believe that transgender identities are an un-ideal palliative treatment for severe mental health problems related to confusion and anxiety about biological sex. I believe that a far more ideal treatment for confusion and anxiety about the facts of one's biology is therapy for the patient, and social advocacy to make the culture better accommodate gender-bending individuals. Masculine women and feminine men should not be made to feel "wrong" in their bodies in the first place, and it's obvious that the factor that is most causing mass distress about sex is social media.

I believe that society's overindulgence of people's quasi-religious "gender identities" is exacerbating the crisis of body dysmorphia and gender dysphoria that's currently plaguing the culture, rather than alleviating it.

But of course, the real reason many straight males identify as "transgender women" is not that they have naturally feminine behavioural attributes. It's that they have a sexual paraphilia: they're sexually and romantically fixated on their own bodies, and because they're heterosexual, they're attracted to the idea of inhabiting FEMALE bodies. And these men are flat-out lying about it. Sexual paraphilias are a fact of the human condition and I believe the world would benefit from a better understanding of the diverse and unusual forms of sexual arousal that can occur in the human species. We all need to learn more about how the male sex drive and sexual fetishes work, in order for all of society to keep harmful sexual behaviours under control. The transgender movement seeks to cover up the existence of autogynephilia (the fetish that leads straight men to adopt transgender identities) with a folk tale about some males having been born with mystical female "gender identities" instead. Lies about sexual paraphilias really should not be accommodated in law or in cultural etiquette. You yourself acknowledged that over half of male prisoners with transgender identities are sex offenders. You take pains to distance the connection between extreme sexual behaviour and transgender identity, but you're wrong to do so: there is in fact a direct and strong correlation. A lot of crossdressing men who claim to be women really are exhibiting highly problematic and inappropriate sexual behaviours. That's a fact and it's crucial that we face it, in order to protect vulnerable women and girls from sexual assault.

You refer to the "dehumanizing" of people who identify as transgender, but you've given no examples of this. I don't believe it's "dehumanizing" to acknowledge anyone's biological sex, ever. This is especially true given that people who hold transgender identities are often struggling with mental illnesses and/or indulging their secret sexual fantasies.

We as a society should be striving to reduce the number of people who are so debilitated by mental distress that they require medical treatments and "transgender identities" in order to cope. But offering up more and more "middle ground" accommodations for such patients is ultimately only making the problem worse, not better.

There is no middle ground here. We as a society should speak up loud and clear that biological sex cannot be circumvented with scalpels and chemicals, nor can it be circumvented via "faith" in quasi-religious transgender dogma.

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Liberals are kicking a heavy can down the road by insisting there's a "sane middle" here. Where's the sane middle for body integrity disorder or anorexia? Do some people have no choice but to cut off limbs or starve themselves as close to death as possible without actually dying to live full lives? Sex dysphoria is a body dysmorphia disorder just like all the others, but it's the only one we're supposed to pretend is treated by encouraging it. Those of us who have suffered sex dysphoria but don't fit the easy to condemn youth-related cases, adults who are largely autistic or mentally ill, are not content to find this middle with you. Everyone deserves to be at peace with their bodies. It is not acceptable to write some of us off as hopeless cases, doomed to accept what our mental illness tells us. No other mental illness is treated this way, where the distortions caused by it are enabled and encouraged.

And yes, of course everyone knows A Happy Transsexual. I know many myself who are quite different in private from the persona they use online. Happiness with irreversible choices can be put on quite easily considering the alternative is facing the irreversibility. It won't be easy to have this larger conversation but vulnerable people need it to happen. This is not going to just become accepted like homosexuality has been (primarily because homosexuality is not a mental illness that requires treatment and the vast majority of people intuitively understand that at this point).

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