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JA's avatar

About 10 years ago I was teaching a graduate course on applying mindfulness to CBT to treat mood, anxiety and addictive disorders. I was teaching the course for free. I used a case example of a young woman who was going to frat parties, getting heavily intoxicated and then getting sexually assaulted. She was being repeatedly traumatized. She had worked with a therapist who had suggested that she shared some responsibility for the assaults. The woman fired her therapist because "she said I asked to be raped!!". I was the young woman's psychiatrist and I pointed out to her that I did not know how to keep her safe if she was going to keep engaging in that behavior. She asked if I was blaming her and I said blame wasn't the question. I asked her if she were walking through a jungle and knew there were predators nearby would she be more or less safe if she were intoxicated. She agreed with my point. At her next visit she had stopped going to frat parties and was no longer drinking.

I pointed this out to the graduate students that by changing the focus from who is at fault to what behavior is safe vs unsafe she was able to make a healthy change.

A couple of the graduate students complained to the department chair that I was "victim blaming". He agreed with them and my course was canceled.

My point in relaying this story is that there seem to be people in charge of training therapists who have had their heads up their asses for a long time. Its not a recent phenomenon.

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Nothing new here. Clinical psychology has always been an instrument of social control. During the dark days of the feminine mystique which Betty Friedan exposed in the book of the same name women who were dissatisfied with their 'feminine role' were diagnosed as 'neurotic' and sent to therapy to get them set straight. Earlier runaway slaves were diagnosed with draptomania https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drapetomania. Any behavior or preference that is unacceptable in polite society gets diagnosed as a psychological pathology. And when it's no longer socially unacceptable the diagnosis is dropped.

Most people I know are in 'therapy'. I guess I understand. Everyone needs someone to complain to and if you're paying you don't have to feel bad about it. You're buying your whining time. But to take their rubbish, which changes by roughly the decade, seriously is disastrous. Remember 'repressed memory syndrome' which was all the rage during 1990s, when psychologists manipulated toddlers into telling stories of sexual abuse about their caregivers, who were in some cases sent to prison?

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